Wednesday, 4 February 2026

Anyone can learn to fall asleep

From tricityvoice.com

By Stephanie Uchida

Sleep specialist shares ways to deal with insomnia

After diet and exercise, sleep comes to mind as an obvious way to improve quality of life. As it’s often repeated, humans spend a third of their lives asleep. But curiously, this significant aspect of health isn’t fully under our control. We can simply decide to go on a jog, but we might lie in bed for hours hoping in vain for sleep to arrive.

Dr. Farbod Ghods is a pulmonologist with a specialty in sleep science. He’s the clinical director of the Kaiser San Leandro and Fremont Sleep Medicine Labs. In an interview, he shared some causes of insomnia and ways of improving sleep.

Although sleep is something all humans share, misconceptions still proliferate. One is about the need for sleep.

“As we move on through the journey of life…we’re seeing some changes in terms of the need for sleep as we go from infant, paediatric, children, adulthood,” said Ghods. “However there’s sometimes the misconception that as we move and journey through life we don’t need as much sleep.”

For most people, between seven and nine hours is ideal. People should ask for help if they’re getting less than six hours, or if they’re having daytime insomnia symptoms such as daytime tiredness, anxiety or irritability, and problems concentrating.

Another sleep disrupter people dismiss as simply annoying is snoring. Snoring can be an indicator of sleep apnea, a condition where oxygen flow is interrupted during sleep. Someone with sleep apnoea has to keep waking up to clear their airways, getting much less restful sleep—even the wakings are so brief they’re forgotten by morning.

Another common myth: “Sleep is only sleep. It will not impact any part of my health.” The impact of lack of sleep can spiral out into depression, anxiety and high blood pressure. Sleep apnoea can even impact memory in later stages of life.

In fast-paced modern life, people can get used to deprioritizing sleep. “We’re busy, we do a lot of work,” said Ghods. “And on the weekend we catch up on our sleep. I don’t think that’s appropriate, because we’re not able to catch up on that amount of sleep that we lost. We call it our sleep debt.” A day or two is not enough to compensate for the negative effects of insufficient sleep such as delayed reaction times.

Sometimes, life disrupts sleep. Ghods himself is on call and occasionally has to wake up for emergencies in the middle of the night. People might need to wake up early for work, or might be caring for a baby too young to sleep through the night. In these cases, the sleep disruption isn’t insomnia because the person is still physically able to fall asleep. The trouble is planning around a difficult routine.

Still, outside factors can cause or worsen insomnia. Caffeine is a big one, especially after 4pm. Alcohol can help people fall asleep, only to lead to disrupted sleep. Some medications can disrupt sleep. Environment also makes a difference: a cool, dark, quiet room is optimal for transitioning to sleep.

Don’t forget stress. Insomnia can even bring on its own patented brand of stress. “If I have insomnia,” said Ghods, “the moment I go to the bedroom or think of going to bed, it reminds me of all of the history. All of the stresses of lying in bed looking at the ceiling and not sleeping. It starts to make me more anxious.”

When people seek treatment for insomnia, the first step is to be aware—that a problem exists and what their actual sleep patterns are. “First of all, know how much you’re sleeping,” said Ghods. “Sometimes you start with a sleep diary. It’s a simple fact. When did I go to bed, when did I wake up?”

Sometimes Ghods sees an “aha” moment in patients as they begin to observe their sleep and notice a pattern they weren’t aware of.

“We establish, ‘Ok so you’re not able to fall asleep,’” he said. “Let’s think about: is it something predisposing you? Is it something perpetuating this? Or is it something that would cause you to have other issues?”

Changing behaviour and attitudes around sleep—cognitive behavioural therapy for insomnia, or CBT-I—is the standard for care. Medication can be tried in moderation with guidance from a doctor, but it’s better as a short-term solution for two reasons. Most meds haven’t been studied for long-term side effects, and they can create psychological dependence, even relatively harmless ones like melatonin.

“Your mind thinks, This is the reason I’m sleeping,” Ghods said. “I should take that pill.

Everyone can do with practicing better sleep hygiene, around schedules and sleep environment, and ditching the phones. The blue light from screens wakes people up, so Ghods recommends making the bedroom a “no phone zone.”

No one’s immune from disrupted sleep, even sleep specialists. “I was on call over the weekend,” said Ghods. “I got paged at 3am. I couldn’t fall asleep until 5am. I had to get out of the bed—do what I tell my patients: go to the living room, dim the lights, not be on my phone.”

Sleep reminds everyone daily that life isn’t under our control. It won’t come on command. But if people shift their focus to developing good health habits, sleep might stop by.

https://tricityvoice.com/anyone-can-learn-to-fall-asleep/

Tuesday, 3 February 2026

Stop waking up at 3am — 7 quick fixes you can do today, according to a sleep expert

From tomsguide.com

By Frances Daniels

These seven easy hacks stop those difficult 3am wake-ups 

Have you ever suddenly woken up, panicked that you've slept through your alarm and will be late for work, only to discover it's just 3 a.m.? Yeah, me too.

The good news is that it's pretty common. In fact, waking up in the middle of the night is usually nothing to worry about.

7 easy things to do today to stop waking up at 3 a.m.

Shore recommends these easy lifestyle adjustments to improve your sleep quality and help banish those 3 a.m. wake ups.

1. Go for a walk during the day

Shore tells me that the more sleep pressure (our body's hunger for sleep) builds up, the easier it is to drift off. And one of the quickest ways to accumulate more sleep pressure is to exercise.

"Exercising throughout the day burns energy and therefore helps us become tired," she explains.

Woman walking outdoors in the snow to help her sleep.

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However, the timing of exercise is important. Exercising before bed can cause sleep issues, as our core body temperature increases, working against the natural cooling we undergo when we get sleepy.

"Exercising during the day is more beneficial," Shore advises. "Exercising outside during the day also gives us access to important natural light, and that means the brain can use that bright natural light to help anchor your circadian rhythm."

2. Close the bedroom door and open a window instead

Here's a simple two-second task for better sleep: close your bedroom door and open the window, to get that sleep-inducing 'Lüften’.

"Ventilating your room can help keep it cooler and more refreshed, if the room temperature has dropped, this can help signal our core body temperature to drop, making it easier for us to fall asleep," Shore tells me.

She also notes that ventilating the room helps naturally purify the stale air. "This can help reduce allergens that may disrupt you as you are sleeping," she says.

3. Embrace the art of Feng Shui

Another quick hack involves a little room rearrangement, following the ancient art of Feng Shui for better sleep.

A stylish feng shui bedroom with plenty of light and a calming, neutral design

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This could mean moving your bed so it isn't underneath your window or opening the curtains during the day.

"The art of Feng Shui allows energies to flow throughout the room in a certain way," explains Shore. "Channelling the right energy in the right way is said to improve sleep. If this is something you strongly believe in, then ensuring you feel comfortable whilst you sleep, including having your bed in a certain position can help you feel more relaxed and help you fall asleep easier."

4. Have your coffee break and dinner earlier

According to Shore, processing food is a daytime activity, as it keeps your body awake and active.

"As we are digesting food our core body temperature increases, which is the opposite of what needs to be happening as we are trying to get to sleep," she explains.

"Eating a lighter meal in the evening can allow your body to digest the food a little quicker, allowing your body time to cool down and relax before bed."

The sleep expert also says that what we eat and drink can greatly affect how we sleep, too. Making simple diet changes like cutting down sugar and taking a coffee break earlier are great lifestyle habits to adopt.

"The half life of caffeine is around four to five hours," she tells me. "So, if you are drinking coffee in the afternoon, the caffeine may still be having an effect when you are trying to get to sleep that night."

One technique to follow is the 10-3-2-1-0 sleep rule, which states that cutting out caffeine consumption at least 10 hours before bed and finishing eating at least three hours before bed can improve sleep quality.

5. Ditch work emails for relaxing activities like mediation

One of the best ways to improve sleep quality is to learn how to relax and unwind, even if it's simply kicking back within the hour before bed.

This is because stress can spur the production of cortisol, a hormone which triggers the feeling of wakefulness and the fight-or-flight response associated with danger.

A woman sits at the foot of her bed practising a relaxing deep breathing technique to help her fall asleep

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"When we were cavemen, this would be because we were being chased by a sabre-toothed tiger," Shore says. "In the present tense our bodies will still react the same but the danger now is work related stress, family life, or even financial worries."

"As cortisol is a wake promoting hormone, when we are feeling stressed and our bodies are producing too much of it, it will keep us awake," she explains.

To reduce this cortisol-boosting stress, Shore suggests performing relaxing activities in the evening such as watching re-runs of your favourite show, light reading, or meditation.

6. Don't force an early night

We've all been taught at one point or another that we should 'get an early night' to feel better, but Shore says this isn't the case.

Yes, that means you should stop pressuring yourself to go to bed at the same time as your early-bird friends.

"If you are going to bed earlier than you are used to, you may find that you disperse all your sleep pressure before you normally wake in the morning," says the Head of Sleep Science. "This means you wake up earlier and cannot get back to sleep."

Man yawning and snoozing an alarm clock that reads 6am

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She advises rather than forcing early nights, finding a sleep time that works for you and sticking to it.

"By keeping your sleep and wake times similar every night your body should know when the right time for sleep is," she says, "making it easier to fall asleep and wake up."

7. Turn down that thermostat

The winter nights mean you probably want to add some snuggly warmth to your bedroom, but Shore warns you shouldn't go overboard during bedtime.

"If our environmental temperature is too hot, our bodies will find it more difficult to cool down. Think of when it's peak summer and we're all struggling to sleep in the heat!" she tells me.

Person turning down the thermostat on a radiator

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"If your heating makes your bedroom too hot, you may find that you are waking throughout as your body cannot cool down enough."

In other words, don't touch the thermostat. Instead, look for alternative ways to sleep cosy.

"If you are keeping your heating on to keep the rest of the house warm, try turning down the radiator in your bedroom," says Shore.

Is waking up at 3 a.m. something to be worried out?

First of all, don't worry if you notice (or your sleep tracker) notices that you've drifted awake during the night or early hours of the morning. According to Shore, waking up at the same time every night is completely normal.

"As we cycle through different stages of sleep, we find that the first half of sleep is predominantly deep sleep, the second half of sleep is lighter and REM sleep," she explains. "When you wake in the middle of the night this can be where the body shifts between different types of sleep."

The sleep experts tells me the severity of these night-time awakenings usually depends on how you respond to them

"If you are waking at 3 a.m. every night and falling back to sleep easily, this generally indicates you have a good, regular sleep pattern," she says.

However, in some cases, 3 a.m. wake-ups can indicate deeper sleep issues.

"If you start to regularly struggle with waking throughout the night and end up staying awake, then you may want to seek out professional help," advises Shore.

When should you speak to a doctor?

'Middle insomnia', when you wake up during the night and struggle to fall back to sleep, is a problem that plagues many of us at some point in our lives.

With a few adjustments to your sleep hygiene, like the ideas we've covered above, you can often move on from these sleep disruptions and enjoy an uninterrupted eight hours of kip.

However, if your middle insomnia persists, or sleep deprivation is impacting your health or safety, we recommend speaking to a healthcare professional to find a targeted treatment plan.

https://www.tomsguide.com/wellness/sleep/7-quick-fixes-you-can-do-today-that-can-stop-you-waking-up-at-3-a-m-according-to-a-sleep-expert